tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3492445970940969120.post8582084946799176735..comments2023-10-08T05:14:31.016-04:00Comments on The Hailey Herald: Love Being a Mom, but What about Hailey? (31 for 21)lovemy3http://www.blogger.com/profile/17434145151589494680noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3492445970940969120.post-63789125152700466932013-10-30T21:51:37.205-04:002013-10-30T21:51:37.205-04:00I try not to look too far into the future either....I try not to look too far into the future either...sometimes it just happens :-)lovemy3https://www.blogger.com/profile/17434145151589494680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3492445970940969120.post-9066738660132930762013-10-30T21:50:50.417-04:002013-10-30T21:50:50.417-04:00I actually hope she won't have the desire to b...I actually hope she won't have the desire to be a mom. I have several friends who never had it. They will all just make fantastic aunts :-)lovemy3https://www.blogger.com/profile/17434145151589494680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3492445970940969120.post-40745299621732422832013-10-30T21:49:46.358-04:002013-10-30T21:49:46.358-04:00I don't think so either, but I didn't want...I don't think so either, but I didn't want to pass judgement on anyone else who have done it in the past. I think Kamdyn and Hailey will make fantastic aunts! They will be the "cool" aunts :-)lovemy3https://www.blogger.com/profile/17434145151589494680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3492445970940969120.post-41375346810824238102013-10-30T21:48:48.073-04:002013-10-30T21:48:48.073-04:00I have no words other than, I'm sorry. It is ...I have no words other than, I'm sorry. It is always so hard to give up a dream that we have no control over!lovemy3https://www.blogger.com/profile/17434145151589494680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3492445970940969120.post-52817002369180056002013-10-30T09:05:38.293-04:002013-10-30T09:05:38.293-04:00I remember being devastated after being told Russe...I remember being devastated after being told Russell would never have children. To me growing up and having a family is what made life complete. The ache of the realization Russell most likely will not be a Father has gone away. All I can hope is that being "Cool Uncle Russell" will be enough. But we just never know what the future holds for our kids. I try not to look to far ahead.JChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16040699928110444013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3492445970940969120.post-59414241408295579902013-10-30T07:33:46.122-04:002013-10-30T07:33:46.122-04:00This is a hard topic for me as well - for all the ...This is a hard topic for me as well - for all the reasons you stated. But then again maybe Kayla will be like my sister who has absolutely no desire to have kids. She is a firefighter and loves her career and loves being an aunt to my kids. Maybe Kayla just won't care about having kids either. Sometimes I do ache for her in that regards though; just that even if she wanted to it's doubtful that she could or should.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02441176684416139172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3492445970940969120.post-58870444974377065152013-10-28T20:50:09.673-04:002013-10-28T20:50:09.673-04:00If Kamdyn decided she wanted a baby with her partn...If Kamdyn decided she wanted a baby with her partner, I guess there isn't much I could do about it, but I'm pretty sure I would discourage her. I just don't think it's a good idea. It used to upset me too, but it doesn't any more. I think Kamdyn will find other areas in her life just as fulfilling as I find motherhood. teal915https://www.blogger.com/profile/14813778503107953220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3492445970940969120.post-44078367881795944512013-10-28T14:27:35.301-04:002013-10-28T14:27:35.301-04:00I once asked my husband if there were any dreams o...I once asked my husband if there were any dreams of his for Owen that he thought had changed or that saddened him and he said "I'll never be a grandfather." I remember sitting on our couch and just crying. Because I won't ever be a grandmother.......Owen's our only and since there are only 2 noted cases of men with Ds having children, I'm pretty sure it won't happen. His love for people would be something great for a child of his to learn.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17913754866057778005noreply@blogger.com